Friday, January 2, 2009

just SAY~

SAY this, NOT that!

• Say this: "What do you think about that?"

• Not: "How do you feel about that?"

• Because: He knows how to answer the first question, but the second one makes him nervous.

• Say this: "I wish I could say this in a way that makes more sense to you."

• Not: "You don't understand me."

• Because: Miscommunication is a two-way street.

• Say this: "Let's go for a drive."

• Not: "Let's sit down and talk."

• Because: Men are less tense when they're doing something physical.

• Say anything: Once

• Not: Ten times

• Because: To a guy, repetition makes a statement meaningless.

1 comment:

Shahrul Hafizi said...

salam ziarah